Living with Roommates: Making It Work

Step-by-step guide

1. 1

   Create a written agreement

   Even with friends, write down rent split, bill responsibilities, shared supplies, cleaning schedule, and house rules. Review it together and both sign.

2. 2

   Set up shared expenses

   Use apps like Splitwise to track shared costs (utilities, internet, cleaning supplies). Agree on a budget for common items. Review expenses monthly.

3. 3

   Establish house rules early

   Discuss overnight guests, quiet hours, shared food, bathroom schedules, thermostat settings, and common space usage. Be specific to avoid assumptions.

4. 4

   Communicate issues quickly

   Address problems before they build up. Use 'I feel' statements ('I feel frustrated when dishes pile up') instead of blame. Schedule monthly house meetings.